It will come as no surprise that we woke really early, and found it impossible to get back to sleep - so, before showering, we donned the thick and cozy dressing gowns/robes and tiptoed downstairs for freshly baked cookies and coffee. Then we double checked everything that we had already double checked the previous night - clothes, vows, rings, music, marriage licence, cameras... next it was scout through emails, MySpace and Facebook to see if anything needed attending to. Then it was shower, shave for Jimmy, get dressed and then downstairs for breakfast - fruit juice, fresh fruit, coffee, and mushroom and spinach quiche.
We had arranged to spend part of the morning with Val's son, Richard, and so we wandered along Prospect Avenue and down to the beach to see the seals, and squirrels, and seagulls, and pelicans... and people by the hundreds.
It was a hot and sticky morning, so we showered again (and Jimmy shaved again - yes, twice in one day!), and took our time getting ready for the big occasion. So we treble checked everything again and made our way to the car, waited a few minutes for Richard to return from his hotel... and then off we drove, Jimmy driving extra carefully today.
We got to Taylor Guitars at El Cajon 10 minutes ahead of schedule, unpacked the bits from the boot (trunk) of the car and made our way just a few yards to Customer Services/Reception... almost overcome by the heat already. Once inside we met our photographers and videographers (Jessica and Nathan), and the receptionist phoned Chalise to let her know that we had arrived.
There was time for a few pre-wedding shots outside (phew... it was sweltering) and also in the Taylor store before the officiant (Reverend Christopher Tuttle) and our friend Timi from Texas arrived. Then we walked over to the 2000 room (Marketing Suite) - we could have driven, but wanted to savour the walk. Chalise had told us on our previous visit that we should feel free to pick up and play any of the guitars that day and also on the wedding day too... so we changed our original plan of two pieces of pre-recorded music during the ceremony to be one song played live by us and one pre-recorded song.
The Reverend brought us together for the ceremony - dispensing with the traditional groom to his left and bride to his right... we swapped sides so as to be in jiva performance position... nice touch, and so typical of how the Reverend handled things, individual and accommodating and fun. We can't recall every word that was said (however, that will be available for us to treasure in high definition video), but we remember the points about friends and family, and love and trust, and fun and imagination, and the exchange of rings, and the speaking of our own self-written personal vows to each other, the holding hands, the pronouncement of man and wife, the kiss, the applause (yes, really, applause!), the occasional tear being dabbed away, the music... ah yes... the music...
Val played the gorgeous Custom Build Jumbo 12-string that we both fell in love with on our previous visit, and Jimmy chose a beautiful 814CE 6-string... we sang 'Back Home To You' by Allan Taylor... and the pre-recorded song was 'Dancing On A Saturday Night' (written esecially for us by Allan Taylor as a wedding present)... the Taylor Guitar Factory... we played Taylor guitars... and the music was all by Allan Taylor... a bit of a theme there!
The happy couple...
mid-ceremony - not quite Mr and Mrs yet
Timi and Richard were our official witnesses, and they duly signed the official documentation - many thanks to you both for sharing and taking an active part in this special day... we were honoured to have some of the Taylor staff present throughout the ceremony, and there were even some photos taken by the Taylor photographer which might even find their way into a company publication... who knows?

The happy couple...
Mr and Mrs Jimmy and Val Monteith-TowlerNext we were invited to take more of our own personal shots throughout the factory (Chalise acting as resident camera-person for this part) before making our way back to reception where we picked up cards and gifts that resourceful friends had made available to us as a surprise at Taylor Guitars on the actual wedding day. We are indeed humbled and grateful to have such people in our lives.
And so, having said our farewells to Chalise and Co, we left drove back to La Jolla where we enjoyed champagne in the garden of the B&B with Timi and Richard... a lovely touch. Then the four of us strolled along the ocean front before enjoying a Mexican meal at Alfonso's (finishing with fried ice cream and cheesecake... absolutely delicious).
And then it was goodnight to Timi (hugs all round) as she had to drive back to her hotel in San Diego (without a sat nav too), and goodnight to Richard as he made his way back to his hotel.
Finally - 40 years and 17 days after we first met - we got married... Mr and Mrs Monteith-Towler... at last!
We wholehertedly thank everyone who has wished us well and all at Taylor Guitars, and especially Chalise, for making this dream day possible for us.
And the answer to the question that lots of people ask? Yes, we were indeed tempted... watch this space!
186 photos today, with more to come from our official wedding photographers and from Taylor too!.
Links
jiva website
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Taylor Guitars website